Advice for americans dating germans

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Read more Living abroad is an incredible opportunity to rediscover and reinvent yourself, including the romantic side of your life.Transcending cultural differences and customs is just a small step to achieve that.There is a lot of negativity surrounding American girls online, and I honestly find this rather surprising.Yes, of course some people will have bad experiences with dates.I imagine this criticism comes from a handful of scorned men, with somewhat limited dating experience, and have become bitter towards all, based on the actions of a few.It is very easy, from a few experiences, to label a group of people as the same, yet ignore the diversity within the group.One criticism that is constantly levelled against American women, is that they expect perfection.That it is the guy’s job to be able to be everything that their partner wants and more, and that even sometimes that is not enough.

I have found the person I want to spend my life with, and she just so happens to be American.

To be completely honest, I feel this criticism reflects much worse on the men that make it, than their partners.

In any relationship, you should be striving to make your partner happy. What does it say about the men who they complain about this?

The concept of going Dutch (splitting the bill) is not even an option.

And, from there on out, your hard earned money will be spent on trying to please your girlfriend rather than anything else. The first, is that it makes American girls seem helpless, and unable to financially support themselves without a man.

But to generalise these assumptions, and often stereotypes, to the whole American population is unfair.

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