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A 1985 study suggests that only about 30 percent of participants in BDSM activities are females.
Most adherents search for the essential intensity, trust, and intimacy that are required to make any deep relationship possible.
The term comes from vanilla ice cream being considered the "default" flavor.
Some people in the D/s world capitalize words and names that refer to dominants, and do not capitalize those that refer to submissives, hence the capitalization of D/s; others do not.
There can be any number of partners in a D/s relationship: one dominant may have several submissives, who may in turn dominate others, or a submissive may have multiple dominants. Romantic love is not necessarily a feature in D/s: partners might be very much in love or have no romantic relationship at all.
Some D/s relationships are sexual, others completely chaste.
In other cases, it can be intensely physical, sometimes crossing into sadomasochism.