We all have that one friend that looks like he had a bowl of ugly for breakfast that somehow, beyond any one’s comprehension, still manages to consistently close with the hottest girls.
The guy’s pond reflection scares away fish and he’s barely tall enough for most roller-coasters, but he flips over more 10’s than a bank teller.
There was one girl in particular there who caught my eye.
She had dark hair, a pretty face, a gorgeous body, and radiated an irresistibly feminine sparkle. She confessed a little embarrassment to be writing me out of the blue, but said she had just read my article How to Get a Life and found it really interesting. When opportunity knocks, you either answer the door, or you light up your internet connection and spank away your sorrows.
For example, by stepping up to volunteer for Bar Camp, I’ve created the opportunity to work with smart hackers.
Since I started from almost zero, I had to make regular trips to a funky little kitchen boutique nearby for crockery and cookware.My requests for kitchen advice eventually led to discussions about the rest of our lives.I told them about 30 sleeps and how I was learning to cook, and we all got more interested in each other.Likewise, when you make women your focal point, you let go of your I. In How to Meet Women Without Really Trying, I suggested that the best way to meet women is by . And every article on this blog is, first and foremost, a letter written to myself.Instead of asking what want most in life: What traits do women find attractive in a man? This advice is so simple that it’s almost impossible to understand. Writing helps me crystallize my thoughts and make sense of my experiences.I was in there a few times a week during the challenge.