Instead of discussing my grade, he told me about his “difficult childhood” and then changed my grade to an A because he could just tell that clearly I “get” poetry.
(It was a poetry class.)I could tell he was a creep, but was sort of into the taboo-ness of it.
(The sex was unprotected, though I was on the pill.) He was leaving back to California the next day, and I didn’t hear from him again until he drunkenly called me a year later wanting phone sex. After the class ended, we ran into each other at a networking event. We exchanged phone numbers under the guise of networking.
The next day, he texted that he was embarrassed he may have said some things he shouldn’t have.
I pretty much stopped going to class, as all of my courses were held in his building, with him as professor, or with the student who supplanted me. He drove an unusual car and when I saw one of them I would flinch and my heart would race, ten years and thousands of miles away. Tl;dr: He lent me books, he broke my schoolgirl heart.
He was totally my physical type: tall, defined muscles, light hair, blue eyes, and a chiseled jaw.
I replied, “Yes.” Thus began a several months long affair that consisted of lots of sexting, sex in my place (including a threesome with another man) and quickies in his car, and never being in public together or going on dates. We were exchanging fantasies, and I mentioned that MFM porn was my favorite and I would love to experience it.
I broke it off because I eventually figured out he was happily married and still living with his wife. Professor Sleazeball was very turned on by this and encouraged me to find someone as a third.
Afterwards, Professor Sleazeball and I would exchange our favorite details of the encounter.
Then he started to say things like, “Would you have liked it if I sucked his cock? I think the threesome was basically his way of having a sexual experience with another man and still feel “straight,” if that makes sense. I definitely don’t think that’s always or even usually the case for guys in MFMs, but I’m pretty sure it was for him.
I’ve hooked up with two, both married, but the first one told me he and his wife had an open marriage.