When you try to talk a man into doing what you want, he will naturally become “the resister”. Your convincing is a turn off for him, because he’ll feel like he’s being forced rather than making his own decision to invest in the relationship.If you really want to get a man to start putting in more effort, memorize these three key elements.
Show him how he adds to your life, rather than focusing on the things that bother you.
In order for a man to respect your feelings and needs, he needs to feel safe to share his true feelings with you.
And the way to do that is to show him you’re not just venting your feelings but rather truly interested in what he has to say.
A man wants to be respected for his thoughts and actions, and the way you communicate this to him is by showing appreciation.
So start noticing the different ways he makes you happy, and thank him for it – often.
Can you think of a more effective way of communicating that will get you the response you really want in your relationship?