RULE 13: There is no such thing as a "soulmate" or "the one". There are millions of girls out there, though, and many of them have the traits you are looking for.
by Giovanni Casanova The following list has been compiled as the result of insights on these forums as well as my own personal experiences.
Not just because most of my life is based around the idea that I will, in fact, someday have my very own fairy tale and rules about when to text, when to call, when to contact, what to say and what to avoid do not fit in that plan; but because we walk away from good things because of silly rules far too often. Three days could give someone space enough to see what they think about someone, to decide if they want to see that person again; but I don’t want someone to have to think about it that long. I like manners and a chase, but I don’t think it matters who initiates it—just that someone does.
For instance, one of the most common rules we have for dating is that there should be three days between meeting/a date/seeing each other before texting. if this is my person—my person will not have to weigh the pros and cons of seeing me again. If you want to talk to someone the moment they walk out of a room*, This does not mean text someone ten times without a response or anything along those lines. That is a rule to be honored as it falls along the lines of harassment—and that, my friends, doesn’t go over well with society or would-be dates. But I am a grown woman with a career, bills and a whole big, full life of my own—I can ask someone out. And keep those manners up to code—I mentioned I like the rules that make sense.
This is why you see fat, ugly, or dumpy guys with hot chicks. You will attract more women when you don't care if you're attracting women. Things involving some activity are best: pool, bowling, roller blading, mini-golf, dancing, etc. RULE 10: Do not give gifts early in the relationship. RULE 20: Never date a girl who has more problems than you do. RULE 25: Realize that women are tricky, lying, manipulative, devious, scheming, sneaky, cunning, calculating, shrewd, and Machiavellian creatures. Chances are also good that if you DO succeed in getting back with your ex, you'll wish that you hadn't. If it's wrong, that's a good lesson for next time...
RULE 6: After getting a girl's phone number, wait at least two days to call her to avoid appearing desperate. Not to talk about weather, current events, how her day went, etc. RULE 8: If you call a girl and get an answering machine, don't leave a message. Girls, as a general rule, do not return phone calls. Doing so makes it appear as though you are attempting to purchase affection. RULE 15: If a woman disrespects you or your time, particularly early in the relationship, don't hesitate to get rid of her. RULE 16: No relationship is a committed one until both people agree that it is. The harder something is to obtain, the more valuable it is perceived to be. RULE 28: Don't reveal too much about yourself too soon.
This life is far too short for anything but pure joy.