Dating service for cancer survivors

With radiation in particular, thickening of the vagina is common, which can make it difficult for women to have sex.

In addition, some women experience premature menopause -- where they have hot flashes, stop having their periods and have a lowered sex drive -- while men may face erection problems, according to the National Cancer Institute.

Having cancer or a history of the disease can make the search for a relationship seem intimidating.

Social worker Barbara Golby gives advice for restoring confidence, setting expectations, and disclosing disease history and shares resources for cancer patients and survivors looking to jump into the dating scene.

Some people want to discuss their cancer right away because they feel it’s an important factor shaping who they are.

Others tend to bring it up almost as a defense mechanism — a test to make sure the other person can handle it so they can avoid being hurt later on, Ms.

A cancer diagnosis can shake people’s self-confidence, making them feel betrayed by their body or as if they don’t have as much control over their future as they once did, Ms. This loss of confidence can make it harder to pursue a relationship.

Start to rebuild your confidence by reminding yourself what you have to offer a potential partner and the traits you value most about yourself.

You may want exactly what you wanted before cancer, or your priorities may have shifted.“Dating is not about finding someone who is willing to date you There might not be a magic moment when you suddenly feel the time is right to join an online dating site or accept an invitation to a party where there will be other singles.

And that's what inspired her to start the website, the 2date4love is a dating site that enables people who cannot engage in sexual intercourse to meet and experience love, companionship and intimacy at its deepest level. "It's about finding someone to share your sacred space with, to have someone in your life where it's you against the world." Problems with intimacy after cancer are very common, gynecological oncologist Dr.

At 2date4love, we encourage people with this shared commonality to be open to the possibility of finding love and happiness. Ilana Cass, of the Cedars-Sinai Samuel Oschin Comprehensive Cancer Institute in Los Angeles, told ABC News.

Returning to activities you enjoyed before cancer — or trying new ones — can help you feel like yourself again.

In dating, it’s normal to fret about whether another person is going to be interested in you.

While you can’t control the other person’s reaction, you can control how you deliver the message.

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