They’re the ones who stand out in people’s memories, who can command attention (and affection) with seeming ease.One of the best things you can do – especially as a short man – is to develop your sense of presence.The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.Seem like a tall order One of the worst things that guys can do to themselves is to get defensive about being short.Presence is, simply, your ability to command people’s attention.It’s the way that you can make people focus on present.If you’re not 6 feet tall or taller, then you may as well just resign yourself to a sexless life of Napoleon jokes.
Similarly, vertical patterns and stripes will help direct the eye in the ways you want.You may think that you’re hiding it like the professional poker-player you could be, but in reality, that sour attitude is shining off you like an especially greasy halo.potential attraction, no matter how awesome you may be otherwise. The more you let your height (or lack thereof) bother you, the less attractive you get.A shitty attitude, whether angry and aggressive or defeated and negative, will nuke any chance of sex or love faster than telling them that you eat live puppies. A short man with confidence is far more attractive than a tall guy without it.The attitude that your height is a defect and nobody could possibly love a short man is attraction poison. Yes, you may have to fake it for a while as you unlearn the bullshit that’s been shredding your ego.Look, I get it: you’ve been getting Oompa Loompa jokes since forever.