Reply Today after 6i found a job we could meet to straighten things up. I listen I watch but I just see his weakness and, regardless of this, his attempt to appear respectable. And looking at him as third party real cemented the pitiful character he is. Climbed the mountain I, now, can just walk towards the light. I can see now after 4 months, why other ppl kept saying they are a better person because of the N. The first 2 months were hell and I don t think he will fully leave my s the fle I ll always carry with me, if anything to remind me that I am worth so much more. Reply I moved to dayton , ohio met a narcassist named quan i am a widow he sought me out . I never did nothing but fallin love with a man who lied to me . Reply WOW Your story was almost identical to mine except I was going through divorce when that demon Narc targeted me.U expressed the thought the man I met is not the one I left. I sure learned the importance of boundaries and trust my gut. Told me how beautiful i was spent moey on me was their through my grief . I new no one in dayton new to the area married for twenty eight years grievieng hard . I let him in my home he changed over night became verbally abusive controlling manipulating . Made me believe i was stupid let me no he only loves his self . throwing his best friend up in my face how she was loyal to him . Same thing moved in and almost immediate the Narc mask started slipping. I just want you to know it was nothing you did wrong and that it didn’t only happen to you…So, take a stroll down memory lane to remember all of our past Word of the Year selections.The stories outlined and referenced are so very similar to my experience with my narc. Twist a story to their advantage as if their the victim, and yet, their the culprit. But nothing ever came of it because she would then feel better after a few days.Never happy, always thinking of nobody else but themselves. Never wanting to own any accountability for their behavior, and, always blaming others for their shortcomings. I keep seeking closure or caring that I know will never come. I enjoyed her ways and I know it sounds insane but I could just sit and listen to her talk and watch her eat. We share a dog together and she makes me feel guilty when I don’t want her to come around to see the dog because she doesn’t take care of it full-time. Why should she just come and go when she feels like it and I have all the responsibility ?The cycle of emotional and verbal abuse, the vicious cycle of discard and demeaning of people is atrocious. They’ll tell you what you want to hear to tart the cycle of abuse all over again when you implement the NO CONTACT. Reply Kim, I’ve been reading your emails and writings for about a year. But on an emotional level it is so hard to accept that the man I so loved is just an empty shell. She’s left again and Ive not heard from her in over a week. She tells me that its usually when she is feeling weak after a cocaine comedown… I also believe that she goes back to her ex every time i am blocked and vice versa. Ive supported her through so much, mentally, emotionally, financially and she doesn’t seem to remember any of it.Confirm you had be eloquent enough and hope is nana is better.. each day gets better for me as long as I remain No Contact with that ugly parasite..
It is an opportunity for us to reflect on the language and ideas that represented each year.She doesn’t even bother with the dog anymore, which is why I think she’s gone for good this time. I want her to get in contact, so that I can be the one to finally say , we are done. who would have thought that this is who she turned out to be ? She can’t hold down a job event though she is amazing at what she does and always gets great pay but has never once saved any.Its been a week since our last horrific conversation but I am certain that I will hold onto no contact this time. If you find that it’s too much to handle on your own, you may want to consider joining us in The Essential No Contact Bootcamp. He left one night and was missing i was so worried days went by i kept texing .However, this is where I am and I accept that I arrived here on my own two feet. I could not understand why/how he would use the detriment of our relationship to secure another. I had not been wit another man in twenty eight years .What woman would fall for that coming from a married man with two small children?? It honestly blows my mind how charming he can be when he wants, yet so hurtful and destructive when he wants. I feel i filed my husband why did he ride me down and sought me out just to destroy me and throw me away . I pray for my healing from my husbands death and the death of the demon named quan .Well I saw him and her with his dog and her 5 dogs hiking together.