"I realize my blurting-it-out style was my own insecurities about sobriety. Never tell on a first date "Never tell someone on a first date," Davis says.
"It's the smoking and lack of sleeping; it's hard to share your life with someone when you need to explain further why you do these things," she says."It's complicated if you withhold it and they find out too late.Dishonesty can ruin a potentially good relationship." 3.Be casual yet confident So exactly how does one reveal a secret without just blurting it out?"It's hard not to kill the mood with your health secret, because it's probably not something that can be easily segued from a topic you would normally discuss," Davis says.Jill, a 33-year-old from New York City, knows that finding Mr.