taking you on a casual stroll through Dogenzaka, also known as Love Hotel Hill in Shibuya.One thing that surprised me the most was that online dating was not only for casual hook-ups and one night stands. Some guys were genuinely looking for a relationship, but found it difficult to meet people the traditional way, especially if they were interested in foreign girls.I did find Japanese guys very attractive, but they would never approach me, being notoriously shy around foreign women.I could sometimes detect a flicker of interest, at most, before they ran away. From what I gathered from my Japanese girlfriends, it seemed to involve a lot of passiveness, indirect communication, text messaging, misunderstandings and patience.Sign up today and find many personal ads in a matter of minutes.
I discovered hand holding and dark karaoke boxes did wonders with shy Japanese guys, giving them all the signals needed to take things further, i.e.
In a way, being from different cultural backgrounds made it easier to find things to talk about.
If my dates were always very friendly, it was sometimes hard to tell if they were interested in me or not.
After a particularly gloomy weekend, I decided that some no strings attached action sounded a lot better than no action at all.
I joined Japan Cupid, a dating website and started combing through profiles of creeps, charisma men and thankfully, potentially interesting Japanese guys.
I was new to the online dating scene and a little hesitant at first.