It definitely made things easier knowing they were interested in me, yet there were distractions as well.
I want to thank all the great people who agreed to collaborate and share their story with all of us! You might already know him as I interviewed Ben a while ago.
And if you approach them in such an environment, where they’re pretty much expecting it and frankly came there for that purpose, then you’re unlikely to scare or embarrass the hell out of them.
Also, if you check certain English language magazines like Metropolis, or certain websites, you’ll find personal ads from Japanese women who are in the market for NJ guys.
It takes a certain amount of commitment to start dating when everyone will know about it in a few days.
I found it hard to make anything more than superficial connections or move past friendship.
I’m still new to my relationship and we’ve had no major problems despite our difference in language.