If you’re someone who has trouble making small talk on dates, one of my tricks is to start with current things, and go from there.Meaning: Instead of asking “What do you do for fun? ” and from there, I’ll get to learn what the person enjoys doing in their free time.Now please do not go out and start asking these questions on the first date. I had someone email me after one of my dating talks. Do you also give any offerings when you feel led to give? Are you going to pool your money or lead separate financial lives? The site thrives on the philosophy that a question that makes you think is worth asking.So we’ve made a ritual of asking one new thought provoking question every day for our visitors to ponder and answer.” Or should I say, “I get really clingy around month three and it scares guys off, so here I am, solo!” The world already gives single girls the side-eye; there really is no need to bring up singledom on dates.
If you have any other questions you think should be added to my list please let me know. On the way home from the conference he went to my website and found the questions below which are also on my website. Do you pay credit cards off at the end of each month? What is your attitude with borrowing money to buy things before you actually have the money? He then turned to his brand new girlfriend and randomly pointed at one of the questions to ask her. Will you have a large wedding or will you use that money for a large down payment? I really wish you were right, but that’s what makes this question extra annoying: The same guys who ask me what I to do for fun will turn around in two weeks, and ask me what I would like to do for our first date, even though I’ve given them a list of things I do for fun. I mean, what is the right answer to a question like this?Should I say, “Well, I don’t hook up right away, so most guys get bored with me, and that’s why I’m single!In my talk on dating I tell people that there is so much more to dating then just going out to a movie.