With the twin flame Union, even during separation, the ‘runner’ twin will send feelings of love, and comfort, that will be felt energetically, even if misunderstood.Though, that being said, it is true that this Union can often ‘mimic’ these sorts of unhealthy attachments. All of the twins, (including myself), that I have come across experiencing this journey have been in unspeakable agony, waiting, longing, and yearning for their twin.It is also very likely that any children they bore, will hold the place of the next generation of lightworkers/star seeds.Thus, the element of spiritual love, and it’s manifestations, are never lost.Now this article is not in Anyway anti twin flames, and dating a soul mate also has its pros for those twins who are destined to re-unite, they may provide valuable lessons to learn about love, and about yourself, whilst your twin is not present to allow, and to help you to work through those issues. If a soul mate relationship is successful for a twin flame, their high vibrations will elevate for both, and their partner to heights most profound, though they will be eternally connected to their twin.Let’s just say many soul mate relationships upon the journey are mini role plays of bigger issues that you actually had to work out with your twin, for your growth. They may experience a relationship of the highest bliss, and love, all because of the element of twin flame vibrations that are brought by the one twin.The divine would never choose for you to live your life this way. How in anyway then, are these two, ‘meant to be together’? Surely, we have now realised that labels are not enough.The universe is all about energy, and after a while, you must ask yourself, am I giving away all of my energy and getting nothing back? Many of those who are horrified by the idea of twin flames dating a soul mate, are only this way because they are still stuck in ego consciousness.
From a very early age, it was clear to see that my path was one paved with difference.
So many have put their entire lives on hold, and frozen their self worth, awaiting it’s ressurection by their twin. Not only because the twin flame Union is designed to break these co-dependent patterns, but also because then, you are not learning unconditional love.
You are still searching for conditions, because granted, if you do not get a desirable response, (or any response for that matter), from your twin, you are sent into a spiralling rail of gloom, doom, depression, and self loathing. For the longest time it seems, that the theory of twin flames has been that we are not meant for anybody else. Sure, according to the grand design the twin flame Union is our ultimate resonance, and our souls highest purpose, but this is only IF both twins clear themselves of the egos way of thinking, feeling, and living.
Now, this realisation of what has gone wrong is absolutely shattering to the stayer twin, as their twin usually rejects any, and every effort for contact and reconciliation following that point.
By this time, the stayer twin has awakened to all that this Union means, and they find it impossible to cut the invisible chord that binds the two.
Inspiration, intuition, and imagination gripped me long before I could find my feet.