Now, this realisation of what has gone wrong is absolutely shattering to the stayer twin, as their twin usually rejects any, and every effort for contact and reconciliation following that point.By this time, the stayer twin has awakened to all that this Union means, and they find it impossible to cut the invisible chord that binds the two.Now this article is not in Anyway anti twin flames, and dating a soul mate also has its pros for those twins who are destined to re-unite, they may provide valuable lessons to learn about love, and about yourself, whilst your twin is not present to allow, and to help you to work through those issues. If a soul mate relationship is successful for a twin flame, their high vibrations will elevate for both, and their partner to heights most profound, though they will be eternally connected to their twin.Let’s just say many soul mate relationships upon the journey are mini role plays of bigger issues that you actually had to work out with your twin, for your growth. They may experience a relationship of the highest bliss, and love, all because of the element of twin flame vibrations that are brought by the one twin.Some even wait years, losing the ‘best’ years of their lives to the emotional torment of missing their twin, whilst their twin continues to live a life seemingly unphased. Otherwise, they are certainly not, ‘meant’ to be together.Conaequently, the life of the stayer twin become nothing but a series of emotional pits, anxiety, and Non-fulfilment. Every time that you obsess over your twin posing with a new man/woman on social media, or about the important date that they did not contact you on, you are slowly opening up the childhood wound that breathes, ‘you are not enough’. Take a look at the example of a fully activated and self actualised stayer twin, who completes all the necessary self work, is fully on the road to recovery, takes charge of their destiny, and then the, ‘matrix’ twin, who is still stuck in ego consciousness, who refuses to choose the light, or continues to harm themselves, and others with low vibrational, or abusive behaviour.They fear that dating a soul mate may completely invalidate the divinity, or authenticity of their twin flame union, or exile any possibility of a reunion, this is all untrue.
You are still searching for conditions, because granted, if you do not get a desirable response, (or any response for that matter), from your twin, you are sent into a spiralling rail of gloom, doom, depression, and self loathing. For the longest time it seems, that the theory of twin flames has been that we are not meant for anybody else. Sure, according to the grand design the twin flame Union is our ultimate resonance, and our souls highest purpose, but this is only IF both twins clear themselves of the egos way of thinking, feeling, and living.
One of the greatest twin flame lessons that are learned, and endured, is the lesson of cultivating love – without physical contact.
Whether we have spent several months, or a few weeks only in the bubble love phase, true twin flames who are absolutely loaded to the rim with energetic, and emotional karma, will inevitably have to endure the stage of separation, in order to balance their energies properly.
Imagine knowing that you have found the love of your life, holding the knowing that they are perfectly (though imperfectly) scripted for you in every way, and knowing that they love you too, but for whatever reason, they appear to want absolutely nothing to do with you.
It is important not to go jumping to conclusions when reading the twin flame separation phase symptoms, as these symptoms can also relate in part to karmic attachments and, any other kind of co-dependent or abusive relationship.
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