Another reason is language barrier that is unfortunately present in the majority of cases.
There is no sense to worry about the impression you'll make on a woman.
It occurs if a person focuses not on the phrase itself, but whether it is made correctly or not.
The way to solve this problem is the same as with previous ones: support, praise and let make mistakes.
Fourthly, it's easy today to translate electronic messages.
There are special computer programs (off- and online).
Ask a lady to do without a translator when exchanging written messages.
Let her understand your letters on her own (with a dictionary). You and a Russian lady you like have a common goal – to achieve understanding.
But if you look deeper you'll see that this approach has a lot of minuses. Secondly, without having enough information about each other conversation partners may fail to find common themes for discussion.But any learning is accompanied, as a rule, by mistakes (language acquisition as well). You should tell her from time to time: "What a wonderful mistake!" And then the inner child of an adult woman will definitely feel happy, deserving and having a right for any manifestations.So why not facilitate the task for a lady supporting her and rendering assistance in her efforts aimed at overcoming language barrier which is virtually the result of a fear to make a mistake? Many people were excessively criticized by teachers or parents in their childhood.There are three main reasons for a fear of speaking foreign language. Any person can master the basics of foreign language. And it doesn't matter, whether they were scolded for incorrectly learned lesson or for some other mistakes.People before a phone talk with a virtual acquaintance unintentionally picture them.